Unique Identity

We have set of strong and weak points. A strong point helps in compensating a weak point. This is the law of compensation. We are in our lows in the stressful situations. We need high for the compensation. These highs sometimes we falsely augment with drinking, smoking, eating etc. These are created with the external resources. These highs are weak that loses their strength very fast with respect to time. So, these are the temporary highs which give relief only for the shorter duration.

A true high can be built by enhancing the inner strength using the internal resources. One way of doing this to build a unique self-identity.  Self-identity is that how one sees himself. Each one of us has some sort of talents or skills. All one needs to do is to enhance and sharpen the faculties to a point that he becomes unique by those talents. It is then good to associate him to those heightened talents.

.This attribute adds value to a person because he has proved to himself his worthiness. This self-identity helps in his low stressful life. Our identity changes with time and is not fixed. We can consciously build one that adds value to us. For example, let us consider that one is good in cycling. Now, he has to put conscious effort in enhancing and sharpening this talent. Over a period of time, his skill level has moved to a place where it fetches some unique position. He is different and becomes the new version of himself. This “high” effectively compensates the low period of stress.

Become unique by your talents. This “high” effectively compensates the low period of stress.