Here is a typical example of conversation of two people,
“this morning, I drove to the marketplace and the traffic was really heavy
& driving was truly hectic. After collecting the items in the shop, I was
standing in the queue; all of a sudden the guy who stood in front of me in the
queue dropped his shopping cart to the cashier, rushed to the refrigerator
section to collect a pocket of milk which he apparently forgot in the first
round of shopping. It was really irritating and I wasted my time because of someone’s
mistake. Somehow, I managed to squeeze my other activities to go right time for
my appointed meeting with my boss.
How do you feel when you hear such a conversation? On
hearing this conversation, there is a feel that life seems to be hectic. The cause
for one to feel this way is the words that were used in the conversation.
Here is an example of another conversation. This morning
when I got out into the balcony, the day appeared bright. The sun light was
perfect enough to provide such an ambience. The sound of the birds in my small
garden was really smoothing enough and it was a perfect start of the day as I
enjoyed my morning coffee in this serene surroundings. As I drove the car, my
neighbour who was taking his dog for the morning stroll greeted me “Good
morning” ” with a big smile. As I crossed half to the office, the traffic
became intense and that gave me a break and an opportunity to listen to the
recorded motivational speech of my favourite business leader. Eventually, I
reached office late but in right time to go for the meeting with the clients.
On hearing this conversation, there is a sense of positive
feel. Again, what makes one to feel this way is the words that were used in the
conversation? So, words have POWER when repeated multiple times. Words alter
our emotional state.
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